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De Wit says indeed that I'm a prude. I groan through most of his sexologist speak — "we've been programmed to think of sex as 3-D — dirty, dangerous, and degrading" — but then he says something enlightening that I'll leave you to ponder. After, of course, you've really tried to make sex better with your wife.

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